Did you know, holding anything against anyone is a sin?
In the natural, when someone does us wrong, we want to give it back to them. In the Spirit, we should forgive them, and live at peace with all men. We are to overcome evil with good.
Remember as I said before, what we say or do to someone, will come back on us. Whether good or bad.
Romans 12:17-18 (KJV) – recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.
Romans 12:21 (KJV) – be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.