There are so many who feel guilty for treating themselves to something. Or, will do for others first, and not do for themselves.
It is the gift of God for us to enjoy the good of all of our labor. He wants us to enjoy our lives!
Enjoy your life! It is God’s gift to you!
Ecclesiastes 3:13 (KJV) – and also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labour, it is the gift of God.

When we see opportunities to help someone, only to benefit ourselves, to get something back in return, we are saying; “I am my neighbor”. We’re only thinking about ourselves. This is not an act of kindness. We have eyes, but they only see inward.
When you look at the obvious, most choices are a no-brainer. Would you rather have $10 or $100?
We hide behind fear because we either, don’t want to fail, believe we will fail, or worried about what others think.
Why do we try to make people do what we say, rather than what God wants?
God has given us gifts and talents, but we don’t use them because of fear. We’d rather bury our gifts and talents, and show our fear, rather than face our fear, and show our gifts and talents.
Most people do not fear God. Our actions say so. We fear so many other things, but not God. We do more wrong than right.
There are so many that question God’s goodness. God is good to every one of us.
Do you have friends and family that only call you when they need something? They don’t want to spend time with you, or do for you, but only want what you can give them.
We want everything . . NOW! We don’t want the lessons, the speeches, the waiting. We just want it now.