Most of us have a tendency of trying to change others, or expecting others to change to our likeness.
What if someone was trying to change you?
Examine yourselves, not others.
Psalm 139: 23-24 (KJV) – search me, O God and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts; and see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.
II Corinthians 13:5 (KJV) – examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves. Know ye not your own selves, how that Jesus Christ is in you, except ye be reprobates?