We talk to ourselves, rationalize to ourselves, to come up with our own resolutions to our own issues.
You talking to you, doesn’t give you a different perspective.
Talk to God, and let God work it out. He will bring that someone you need to talk to, to help you.
Stop talking to yourself.
Proverbs 3:5-6 (KJV) – trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
I Peter 5:7 (KJV) – casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.