We practice hating our enemies, use those who use us, curse those who curse us, and pray for only those we love.
What have you gained?
It’s not easy, but doing the opposite, there is much to gain, and great reward from our Father.
Matthew 6:43-46 (KJV) – ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; that ye may be the children of your father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?