As long as we keep feeling sorry for ourselves, others are not going to keep feeling sorry for us either.
Your pity will last as long as you let it.
You CAN do all things through Christ! That includes, leaving pity behind!
Psalm 69:20 (KJV) – reproach hath broken my heart; and I am full of heaviness: and I looked for some to take pity, but there was none; and for comforters, but I found none.
Philippians 4:13 (KJV) – I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.