We dare not want to forgive others, let alone pray for them, when they have wronged us, mostly because we don’t think they are deserving.
What about when the shoe is on the other foot?
Are you deserving?
Luke 23:34 (KJV) – then said Jesus, Father, forgive them: for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots.
Matthew 6:15 (KJV) – but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.