When we pour out our heart to man first, we’re putting our trust in man, and expecting man to be our safe haven.
God is your refuge.
Psalm 62:7-8 (KJV) – in God is my salvation and my glory: the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God. Trust in him at all times; ye people, pour out your heart before him: God is a refuge for us. Selah.