We allow pettiness to separate us from one another.

We are to come together in the same mind and judgement, without any division.

I Corinthians 1:10 (KJV) – now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.